Tamsen: Hey everybody. Matt and Tamsen here. Okay, here is the question today, why are some women so insecure?

Matt: You know I think maybe because they have bad past relationships and they get a little jaded because the guys they choose has not treated them that well and there has been some damage done to their self-esteem and their confidence on other guys in past relationships.

Tamsen: And it might not be that they are insecure. They might not be sure they want to jump in to something else that they were hurt. If they weren’t hurt they might not just be sure of how to go to about something and it is necessarily it has to be insecure. It just might be uncertain.

Matt: Yes and I think that man make it really hard for woman a lot of times because we react unpredictably to a lot of women and then sometimes their self-image and their self-confidence can be affected by erratic male action. You know, ladies please don’t take anything personal and guys treat women with respect always even if you are not in to them. You know how to be nice about it.

Tamsen: Wow, well said. All right this has been Matt and Tamsen and if you have any questions on dating, love or relationships send them our way. We are always here to answer them. Take care.